Why does it matter to get divorced?

 Marriage is a very sacred bond. By getting married, two people become sympathizers of each other for life. Whether it is the golden sunshine of happiness or the rain of sorrows, they always support each other. Like every relationship, this relationship also needs a lot of love, time and patience. If due to some reason there is a rift in the relationship, then it becomes difficult to live together. There are quarrels in every conversation, due to which the tension between the two increases. Every wedding is different and so are the people who officiate it. Therefore, the reasons for divorce also differ. You can also contact our world famous astrologer to solve the problem of divorce.

Recently Microsoft founder Bill Gates and his wife Melinda decided to separate from each other after 27 years of marriage. Both of them told about this decision, "After much discussion and reflection on our relationship, we have decided to end our marriage.

Let us know what is the reason that even after living with each other for years, there is a need to get divorced? And what should be the solution to such problems.

1- Disagreement between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law 

This is a very common problem, which causes disputes between husband and wife as well. On moving to the new house, the daughter-in-law has to adjust with the people, she feels suffocated due to the suppression of her aspirations. The solution to this problem is patience!. Mother-in-law should give time to daughter-in-law to understand the environment of the house, as well as daughter-in-law should understand that along with her other members of the house are also trying to reconcile with her. The daughter-in-law should also respect the wishes of the mother-in-law. In this way, by giving time to each other, we can solve problems.

2- Competition 

Due to mutual differences, neither of the two partners wants to live in harmony, due to which the competition starts to degrade each other. The result of this is that even proper communication between the two stops and then gradually distance starts coming in the relationship.

3- Economic condition 

Due to bad economic condition and not being able to manage the expenses properly, quarrels start between husband and wife even when the need is not fulfilled. There is a saying - when poverty knocks on the door, love is the first to fly away. That's why the husband and wife should spend accordingly and according to the plan. Meaning, as much as the sheet is, the feet should be spread.

4- Not being able to give time

Often the husband is unable to give time to the wife due to fulfilling domestic needs, while the wife is also so busy with household chores that she is unable to spend much time with her husband. Husband and wife should understand and respect each other's feelings. Otherwise, there is always a quandary in both of their minds that even after being together, we are not together. Therefore, by removing the self-problem of husband and wife, importance should be given to their relationship.

5- Do not take care of yourself 

Often husband and wife do not take care of their health, due to which they become lazy and out of shape. Their attraction towards each other also starts to end. Start comparing each other with other men or women. Due to which estrangement starts between the two. That's why partners should try to be friends with each other. Encourage each other by not discouraging them.

7-Unwanted physical relationship

Some husband and wife consider their partner as their property. He imposes his expectations on them, when he feels like having physical relations without consent, starts considering it his duty to give orders and if the person in front refuses to obey him, then he takes it on his ego. The person ignores the wishes of his companions. In this way women get mental stress. They stop expecting anything from their partner. Due to which there is a lack of love in their life and despite being with each other, they feel lonely.

8- Not trusting

When husband and wife doubt each other everything and start spying on them, then there is a rift in the relationship. They start interfering in each other's life so much that they feel suffocated. We all know that there cannot be love in relationships where there is no trust.

That's why one should always give some space to each other and keep faith in them. If one of the husband and wife cheats, then the life of the whole family gets spoiled along with them.

9- Maintaining interest

Husband and wife should always have the urge to know about each other. Whenever you get a chance, keep making them realize how much you love each other. By taking care of each other and maintaining understanding, love always remains intact.

10- Fights

Fights and fights happen between husband and wife. But the problem arises when neither of the two wants to accept their mistake. Always blaming the person in front can increase the quarrel. That's why whenever there is a quarrel, bypassing who is at fault, one should ask for forgiveness by discussing with a calm mind. With this, the person who makes a mistake himself will accept his mistake.

All these reasons cause problems between husband and wife. But with time, love and patience, we can maintain relationships for a lifetime.

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